Buns won’t bake in a cold oven

We’ve all heard the old saying “she’s got a bun in the oven”; a simple analogy of stating that someone is pregnant. But actually, this saying is true more than you might think. If you want to bake a bun, the oven must be warm right? The warmth gives all the ingredients the energy to transform together to create the desired outcome: a well-formed bun. This is all true for making babies. The environment in which the baby is conceived and implanted, and then subsequently grown and developed, needs to be one of which is warm.

One of the main areas I look at when seeing fertility clients is their tummy. I look at what they are wearing and whether they feel warm enough. Many women will wear cropped tops, or short tops that sit on the waist. Underwear may also be low sitting, which means the abdominal and lower back area where the uterus sits is not kept layered up and is prone to invasion of cold. Do you remember your mum or your gran telling you to wear a vest and tuck it into your knickers? This is absolutely sound advice for getting and staying pregnant!

Invasion of cold can also come from things like going outside with wet hair, no scarf, no coat, or sitting on cold surfaces. I’m not talking about doing it once, but repeatedly as a habit. Exposing our bodies regularly to cold exposure without warming up properly afterwards can lead to a manifestation of cold in the body. It is well known that going out in the autumn and winter with wet hair and no scarf can lead to us “catching a chill”, and this is the same for the abdominal area, which can lead to (or be a contributing factor of) fertility issues.

When the body is cold, the flow of Qi and Blood slows down. Our bodily fluids need energy from warmth to keep flowing freely and smoothly throughout the body. If the abdomen is on the cold side, this means that Qi and Blood are not flowing freely to and from the uterus, creating stagnation and leading to stasis.

Losing some weight around the middle can help a lot to increase warmth and disperse cold from this area. If you are looking at IVF you will know that there is usually advice as to the recommended BMI they recommend before starting your IVF journey. Lots of studies have also been done around obesity and pregnancy rates, indicating that a smaller waist can contribute to higher pregnancy rates.

When fertility clients come into see me, I will often ask to look at their tongue as well as palpate their tummy. The colour of the tongue can tell us a lot about what might be going on in the body from an acupuncture point of view. If the tongue shows me a blueish tinge then cold will be contributing factor to address.

Other signs of cold, or of Blood Stasis can be seen in menstrual blood, so if you are wanting to get pregnant then it is worth taking a note of your menstrual blood as well as monitoring your cycles. Look at the colour of the menstrual blood; it is bright red, or pink/orange, or dark red or purplish? What are the size of clots (if any) and the colour of those clots? Do you experience any cramping, bloating and pain before and during your period?

General things you can do to help dispel cold and warm up the abdominal area are:

• Use a hot water bottle on your tummy or lower back regularly – if you’re sitting at your desk for a while use one then, or when relaxing on the sofa, or in bed at night.

• Moxa patches are a great way to penetrate warmth and dispel cold. These are available in clinic. They simply attach to your tummy or lower back and will stay warm for 12-16 hours.

• Incorporate herbs and spices into your diet. Things like ginger, garlic, cinnamon, mint, turmeric are all great for dispelling and dispersing stasis in the body and getting things warmed up and moving. Ginger & Turmeric Tea is a good way of doing this.

• Use a warming massage oil daily. Good choices from my NYROrganic shop are Ginger & Juniper Warming Oil or Warming Salve.

• Get regular acupuncture to support your fertility journey.

If you are looking for fertility support in Lancashire please call/email me directly to have a chat and book in.